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Harmonize Relationships | How To Let Go Of The Past and Move Forward

Harmonize Relationships | How To Let Go Of The Past and Move Forward

We all want happy, healthy relationships with our parents, family, friends, colleagues, partners to be happy and successful in life.

But many times we don't find ourselves in a position to get rid of these small issues and fights. We keep asking ourselves," Why they do not understand?". Now let us move to the root of this for better understanding.


As we already discussed in our earlier post, about a story of holding a half-filled glass for a longer time may freeze our hand and make us paralyze. Similarly, holding on to many grudges and pent-up emotions, our emotions have frozen and we have become rigid with no option left to come out of this.

Many of the times, we are fighting over small issues and mostly same. Sometimes we don't even remember the issue.

Now, you can try a small beautiful activity to let go of all pains and sorrows. Pick up a pen and a paper, write all unwanted/bad memories of past related to any person or event or any unwanted situation of the present on the paper.


Look within and dig deeply. You will surely reach the cause sooner or later. After writing, burn it to ashes and think positive about the person or positive part of the situation and what all you can learn from this.

Or you can think of the person who has hurt you and say, "I forgive you" or "I seek sincere forgiveness". Seek sincere forgiveness and you will be forgiven. You can also forgive yourself for the wrongs/mistakes you have done in the past and affirm not to repeat them in the future.



You will feel more calm, light and relaxed and you may find yourself out of those situations. You may develop good relations with the person. Repeat until you forgive completely and until you forgive all to transform your life for better. Thanks to the almighty.

Find more beautiful ways of living happily in our upcoming posts.

Thanks for reading.
Stay happy, stay blessed.

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